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My husband has had an affair and still is. what should I do? I am 50 he is 61, the slut is 42 and trash


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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .

                                       

                                                  

                                                              



 
                                                                                                             

If your husband knows that you are aware of his infidelity , and continues to committ adultery he does not care about  your feelings , does not love you or repsect you .   If he doesn't know you know I would tell him you are aware he is committing adultery and decide what you want to do about it depending of his actions  .  Far as the other woman goes she may not know he is married make sure she does contact her rock his world like he's rocked yours .  I did not use the term cheating for a reason , cheating is a word used for being dishonest in a baseball game , this is no baseball game , he is an adulterous .   I would also get a good lawyer and kick his lying , dishonest butt to the curb .


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Thank you so much for your wise remorseful response. But he thinks he is all of that. He is on fool's hill,suffering from, " a wanna be syndrome! Old Ass Fool, trying to see if he still has it going on. All this woman wants is what she can get out of him. SHe is ugly, no class, bottom trash. Most definitely she is No match to me.

He say things to me like, I have have done him  so wrong, in the past, I have had an affair with two different men. all the things I have done to him? When I ask he does answer me. He has said he does not think out second daughter is his. All of these accusations just stared after his affair with this she devil. As far as my recollection this affair started about 5 years ago. One year after, I lost my Belove Mother. How could he do that to me and the girls, knowing we were still devastated with her lost? A matter of fact, I am still suffering with post grieve syndrome along with several other ailments.


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Thank you so much for your wise remorseful response. But he thinks he is all of that. He is on fool's hill,suffering from, " a wanna be syndrome! Old Ass Fool, trying to see if he still has it going on. All this woman wants is what she can get out of him. SHe is ugly, no class, bottom trash. Most definitely she is No match to me.

He say things to me like, I have have done him  so wrong, in the past, I have had an affair with two different men. all the things I have done to him? When I ask he does answer me. He has said he does not think out second daughter is his. All of these accusations just stared after his affair with this she devil. As far as my recollection this affair started about 5 years ago. One year after, I lost my Belove Mother. How could he do that to me and the girls, knowing we were still devastated with her lost? A matter of fact, I am still suffering with post grieve syndrome along with several other ailments.

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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .

                                       

                                                  

                                                              



 
                                                                                                             

I am sorry about your Mother .  Your husband was not there when you and your girls needed him the most I am truly sorry for that .  Does this woman know he is married and you have children ?  I am sure part of your post grieve syndrome comes from not having the support you deserve and should get from your husband , you are young and do not have to put up with this .   I hope your daughter does not know that he does not think she is his daughter , that would be very hard for her I would think .  Unless they have lost all respect for their Father which I would not blame them if they have .   I wish you the best , and will Pray your husband sees the light or you get the courage to tell him goodbye .


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