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my wife is 33 yo and said she does not feel anything for sex but she still loves me. she works 12 hr shift 5 days a week and come home tired and beaten. should i trust her?


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Yeah, I think you should. I was like that when I worked 10 hour shifts 5 times a week, and I'm a guy! Wink

Seriously, tiredness really does kill sexual urge. If she works harder than you do, do your best to do as much house work as you can, so she'll be a bit less tired. It could help.

Good luck. 


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Yes you can trust her.  I bet that when she comes home, after 12 hr shift, she still has to do her regular "home duties"..... what do you expect from her after that ?.  There are several questions to ask:
1.  Is your sex at weekends good ?. 
2.  Do you help her during the week ?
3.  Do you let her rest at weekends ?
4.  Do you take her out (mainly to rest and enjoy)
     at weekends ?. 
5.  Are your relations, in general, OK ?  Are you good
     friends (on top of being married).
6.  Is there a way to make her life a bit easier (e.g: work
     less, shorter shifts, reduce to 4 days) ?
7.  How much love / emotional support  you give her ?
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Of course you should trust her. Working 60 hours a week is tough and tiring on anyone. Working long hours and stress will often lower ones libido and interest in sex.

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Good luck and best wishes. 


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Can't resist a woman with a very sexy body!

ask her what should you do about sex and see what she says. she should be supportive but may just be tired. ask her about seeing a marriage conselor. maybe you could try giving her a massage or a good rub down and some oral to make her feel good and then try easign into more making love. what about holding each other or kissing is she too tired for that also?


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