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So my guy and I have been on and off for about ...

So my guy and I have been on and off for about 15months now. While we were on a break I dated two other guys. I didn't tell him right away, but I did fess up and now we're on a "break." He says he can't trust me, but I'm thinking that a "break" is just an easy way on being able to see other options that are out there. He doesn't want me to contact him in anyway. So what should I do?

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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
That is absolutely rubbish....  If you break that means that you (both) are free to do whatever you (both) wish (including meeting others) and don't have to tell him what did you do at those breaks.  He can't require that you won't see anyone else.... that is contradicting and unfair.... If he wants you for him he shouldn't break.....
Best regards,

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kimhen
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What did he do on the break? Yeah men are have a tendise to do that to us. I would not have told him, only because you were not together so that was non of his business. You will get back togeter and he will hold that over your head (always!). Do not call him, he will call you.
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You know what the trouble about real life is? There's no danger music.

I agree with OronD, if you break you are allowed to date whoever you want.
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Rosie
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He gave you the right answer, Don't contact him. I am quite sure that during the break he did not sit at home watching sitcoms on TV. Should you, at his request, get back together he will always question you. Why do you need that? Forget him and get into a healthier and more normal relationship.
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katharinexo
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the guy you are on a "break" with seems to be a jealous, over protecting type. and yes a break does mean you get to see other options but if he doesnt want you seeing other options then he must be in love or not want to share something great with other people that he doesnt want to be in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship with. and if you want to be with someone and he doesnt but has that ownership problem then he isnt really the one.
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