All marriages are worth saving, not just because of children, but because we all need others in our lives. Even the the Lone-Ranger had Tonto, and I'm sure they had their ups and downs. Wish that I knew more about what's going on in your marital-togetherness. However being a man I have some Idea of what is going on, as us men ,in most cases, don't let our partners into our lives.. And,"Where Love abounds no closed Heart-Doors will be found". Perhaps, If you can understand just a little about our maleness then you can find a way to save the relationship. So I will make a feeble attempt to tell you what a man is and is not. A man first-off is about sex, and if he is willing to shed his armor and let you into his life, then a woman can teach him how to Love, if he's willing. When he first set eyes on you, Well, You were just body-parts that fired-up his sexuality, I know most women don,t want to hear this, but it was as true then as it is now. A woman on the other-hand isn't just about sex, she has more of a Holistic-Make-Up wanting commitment, trust and that tactile interaction that says, "I Love You", And is so vital within the relationship. I can get by with just sex, but a woman wants and needs to have more than just sex, Because where sex is quite enough for a man, it won't be enough for a woman's physical and emotional well-being. What turns us off must first start within our head, and that sexual turn off can take many forms. Do think about what I have said. I don't think that we fall-out of love, we just fall-out interest in the well-being of each other.