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My husband never stopped joining dating sites. I ...

my husband never stopped joining dating sites. I always thought we had a great marriage. 3 years. Why do you think he always did it?


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You need to ask him directly why he is on dating sites. There is absolutely no legitimate reason that I can think of why a married man would be on dating sites. It is dishonest to you and to anyone that might meet him on the site. Unless he has some kind of alterior motive in networking, he should really go off the sites. Perhaps he is looking for attention to boost his self esteem which is a problem within itself that you two should deal with together. Just be honest and talk to him about your feelings. Good luck.


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Good relations are base on four pillars: Trust + Openess + Communication + Respect.  By entering dating sites your husband is killing the Trust....  and if you can't communicate it kills a 2nd pillar.... Sure he is not open 2U (to explan) and doesn't respect you (by doing it)..... all in all your "house" of relations stands on 4 very unstable pillars....  You (both) have to attend to it.  If you can't do it by yourself, than go to a marriage counseling (that's the better option), or an experienced 3rd party.   It's a very bad sign !.
Best regrds,

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I really question that he loves and respects you very much. It is not uncommon for one partner (you) in a marriage to think that all is well in the relationship when, in reality, it is not. Perhaps you are blind to reality, as you knew what he was doing and presumably did not put your foot down to stop this very nasty (and STD dangerous) activity.

 

It sounds as though he was into persistent sexual adventures, which may well have manifest as intimacy/sex issues between the two of you. In my opinion, few men like to continually date and make many "conquests". He did, which further suggests sex and matrimonial difficulties on the home front. It doesn't seem that he is a believer in monogamy.


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I have gone thru this with an ex boyfriend of mine. Thats why he is my ex. It is total disrespect towards you and I found it was a form of cheating. His answer was It's just fantsy roll play and that's all it is. But come to find that he was talking to a few women at the same time and it was really explicit sexual stuff. Get into marriage counsling immediately before it destroys your marriage for good. Trust is a hard thing to ever get back


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because he did not love the wife very well he still need another woman for a relationship.


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YellMore sex well help


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