Should i keep being with him

Hi,

    You both have trust issues.  If there is no trust in a relationship. you must as well get out of it.  Your boyfriend seems to be an immature man;

Save yourself the heartaches that you may have.  Find someone more trustworthy.

well i believe trust is the key to a good relationship and clearly u don't have trust in one another.  i always have to know who was on the phone.  its just somthing tht i always ask and its not b/c i dont trust the person. its b/c i just want to know who it was.  im very curious.  But i think checking ur messages is goin a little 2 far. 

i thnk tht him not answering his phone when ur around is nice b/c he doesn't want to b rude. 

u both need to work on trusting each other.  

Sounds like you guys have some serious trust issues.  And if neither one of you can trust the other, then what good is the relationship.  Now I would agree that is sounds fishy that he gets so many calls from other girls.  There is likely something going on.

 Hate to say it but you guys might need to take some space from each other.  Trust is key in a relationship and you all don't have it.  You either need to learn how to trust each other or break it off.  

Hope I could help a little.  There are lots of people on GirlsAskGuys who specialize in giving relationship advice for problems just like yours.  Check it out and hopefully we can help you with any other troubles. 

There's definitely a trust issue there, both with him being deceptive and with him being jealous (reading your massages?! god! to me that would be a good enough reason to get the hell out of there!)

Since I don't know the relationship I can't tell you to leave or stay, instinctively, I have a bad feeling about this, but if you feel like there are good thing to salvage there, then the two of you have to do a massive amount of work to make this a trusting relationship, starting with recognizing that the problem exist. 

he's involved with other women. guys tend not to trust when they know they are not to be trusted, the automatically think that your doing the same thing they are

What tinychiney said is true, I been there. Your boyfriend is acting like he has something to hide and it's probably because HE DOES. Yeah it's called CHEATING!! If he wasn't doing anything wrong he would have no problem answering his phone in front of you or telling you who's calling. Also, his checking you messages and just the way he is acting in general is a form of reverse psychology. He knows he's guilty, so he's trying to turn the situation around and make it seem like YOU'RE the one cheating. Trust me, I been in this situation and you should just leave him. If not, in the end you will most likely find out your instincts were correct and you should have left sooner. Why be with a man you can't trust anyway?!