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I've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 yrs. (offically). I want to go to the next step, but he doesn't want to get married or move in. I'm totally in love with him and he says he loves me too. I don't know what to do. Help? Oh, I'm divorced with kids and he never sees his kids (divorced too) and they're all adults.  What should I do?


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JadeEternal444
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Live & Let Live

I agree, break up now.  This relationship is going nowhere.  I guarantee you he will not commit to this relationship.  If he doesn't even see his own kids, well, that should tell you a lot about this guy.  You can't and don't want to force him into anything, it won't  work in the end.  It seems obvious to me that this guy is NOT worth your time.  Treat yourself better than settling for a guy who really doesn't want a future with you.  He's just enjoying the sex and wants nothing more than that.  I wish you well... please don't feel desperate to settle for just any guy.  You deserve better !!
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Break up now before it becomes 10 years. 

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I understand-I'm with my boyfriend of 5 yrs, we have a house together we got 3 years ago, we have a 2 1/2 yr old son, we live together with my 2 sons from a prior lifetime-He just won't take the nextstep-its not that the relationship isn't going anywhere-its just not broke in his eyes-its working quite well-so why mess with it-I work with a guy who's been with the same girl for 14 yrs now & no marraige or engagement-he has the same idea-I know, for me-because I've had the failed lifetime & this one is so good I WANT more-I WANT the public commitment-THE RING, the whole deal-He's really wonderful & I love him-& he's just not seeing the importance of moving on to a new chapter together-He loves me & I know we'll be together-patience-what you & I have is so good it makes us want more-If you do love him & he loves you try not to give ultimatums, instead try to just enjoy each other & let life take you where it may-I would be concerned about why he doesn't see his children though-
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