I meet a man on a dating service, he seems like a ...

I think that since you've just met this man, you need to not only say you're going to take it slow but actually do so. Asking if he's the right man for you is moving way too quickly. Go out a couple of times, see if there's any chemistry and take it from there. I don't think at this time his helping you keep your house is a smart idea. I think starting a relationship in a role where one person is financially helping the other can likely turn into a disaster.

Yes, I agree. Go way slower. Him worrying about your house is not the sort of thing people do early in a relationship. That's much, much later!

The most certain way to get badly burnt yet again in a new relationship is to rush in too quickly and blindly. It's very easy to be misled by the wrong things in a person, early on.

To decide if he is the right one for you based on the 3 lines you have written is a pretty hard/ impossible task. Looks like you need more to write about.  You need some more experience with him.  I think the biggest disadvantage of meeting someone online is that you don't get to see the persons eyes.  Talking to someone through a screen can be nice but the eyes tell you a lot about a person. Like advised before take it slowly date him a lot before deciding anything.

I dont like the fact that he is offering you money that is scary to me. I do not believe in internet relationships but you should follow your mind and heart.

I don't think it is a good idea to accept his proposal to pay for your house.  You are going to be obliged and won't say no to any sexual overtures.  You need more time t get to know him.  Don't be hasty in your decision-making.  You might get hurt emotionally.

Take care

What do you mean wants to pay....what? Only you will know, elaborate on your question.