3 years is a long time to wait! I think you should play the field a bit just to fulfill your curiousity. If you don't feel right doing that, then you should wait the 3 years. But, lets face it, he's a man and I'm sure he will be playing a little for the 3 years. Do what you feel is right, but if it's meant to be, it won't matter what happened in those 3 years, the 2 of you will get back together . Here's what my boyfriend says..as a man, he would not wait 3 years. There's going to be plent of girls in Miami. If you decide to wait, you're only waiting to get dissapointed.