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my ex got married but now is paying even more attention to me trying to hug me and plays with my hair. Why?


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Karen
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First of all, why are you around your ex? Wheres the new wife? He is trying to send you mixed messages. Maybe hes trying to make his new wife jealous, and wants you two to fight over him. I think I would tell your ex, please dont touch me. Its over. Sounds like hes playing games, or maybe he thinks he can have you both. Nip it in the bud, fast.
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Well it is a very complicated situation.  We grew up together and his cousin and I are best friends.  Our families are close and we have a lot of mutual friends.  My parents didn't approve of us being together and he knew I couldn't go against their wishes so that's why we ended things.  His wife is around most of the time but she seems very detatched from the situation and they're newly married (only two months).
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angeleyes
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ask me and i will try to answer your question..Smile

i really don,t think your ex should be in the picture. he seems to still harbor feelings for you and won't let you move on.he regrets letting you go or he wants to cause problems in your relationship with whom your with or he is very unhappy with the person he married now and wants to make her unhappy. but he also wants his cake and eat it too.Frown
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I definitely agree that he wants his cake and eat it too.  I'm not that kind of girl and I certainly do not respond in a positive way to his advances.  If your husband was doing this would you want to know?
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angeleyes
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ask me and i will try to answer your question..Smile

yes..... i would want to know men think women are not so smart when it comes to relationships..they are so wrong.. i,m very proud of you for not letting him take advantage of you. that makes you the better person in the end .best wishes to you...Smile
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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .

                                       

                                                  

                                                              



 
                                                                                                             

 This guy is an inmature idiot who apparently thinks you are that kind of girl , tell  him to keep his hands to himself and make sure you say it loud enough for everyone to hear including his new wife .   That should nip it in the bud , he is being disrespectful to his wife with you .   She may be acting unattached to the sitiuation because she does not know what to do and she is hurt by his actions ,  she needs to put her foot up his backside and if that did not help , I would be looking for a new husband .  His butt would be out looking in .  I see the reason your parents did not approve of him .

 
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