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I constantly call my husband stupid

i constantly call my husband stupid because he is an idiot and his reply is always the same never never never call me stupid but you know i am just calling a spade a spade, what should i do? he really is very stupid, a drug addict, jobless and not looking and an alcoholic and he smokes and i don't and he plays video games all day long,


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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


You are in deep deep deep trouble.  Your relations are horrible.... in fact I wouldn't define it "relations" at all.  You have only 2 possible options: Either you solve that proplem or split.  It won't be easy to solve it and I believe you'll need a 3rd party to do it (I don't think you'll be able to do it by yourself).  Solving it means that your relations will be based on respect + trust + possitive contribution (of both of you).  At present you are in a very low point (in terms of your relation) and you desperately need help / assistance to rebuild them.  There is no magics here, to go out of it needs a long, hard, painfull process.  Sorry to paint a dark  picture, but that's the truth.... the picture is very dark
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lovedoctor71
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Love knows no bounds.

Can I ask why you are even with him? Clearly you do not love him so I'm not sure why you even waste your time.
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Shima
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Without pecking too much into your personal life I think you have a major problem and it's probably not easy for you to break up. There is no rush to do it either. Getting a third side to do it is a good idea. Try approaching a good friend of his , try explaining the situation and how it is ruining  the house the both of you have built. Speaking to each other in the words you used won't help at all whatever you both say to each other won't even be heard by anyone. There are always two sides to the story you might find out stuff you didn't realize before. Meanwhile getting mad isn't helping as well calm down stress and anger cause lots of health problems.
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Femalesoldier
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Why did you two marry?  Did he smoke before marriage?  Is he a drug addict  who steals to support his habit?  How does he support  drug habit?  It sounds like you two are headed for destruction.  You don't need to do anything, your marriage is doing it for you.  I don't see a future with him unless a serious intervention is immediately enforced.  Especially if you have children.  Are you in need of financial support?  Why don't you add to your income by selling the video games.  If he complains, tell him to get a job and purchase a new one.
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Sorry that your marriage isn't working out.

But you knowingly married a stupid idiot?  You continue to fight with someone you think has lower intelligence than you, who also is a addict, and is not rationale?   Then you like to insult them.

Ok, what does that make you?  There are names for people that act this way too.

So my advice is, have more self-respect for yourself, and move on from this relationship.  You can't change him, he's not worth the aggrevation, your marriage is over. 

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