I think the relationship is already over.  It seems to me that all is needed is to pack your things , or his, and move on.  Love is hard.  Folks say that it a 50/50 deal. well it is not.  it's 100/100 % deal.  Give all you have to each other and your children.  It that works, You can't fail.  Just a little story to explain.  My wife and I have been married for 35 years.  On the day we wed, she said " I want you to be the man of the house, you are the boss. I want you to make all the major decisions....then there was a slight pause and she said " I will tell you what the major decisions are. "  She is the love of my life.  After 35 years, her eyes still light up when she sees me.  I still get goose bumps when we kiss.  She is still the sexiest women alive, when we make love, it's just like the first time. We share all the house work ( i'm not allowed to do laundry ) we care for each other. We never say or do hurtful things.  Cpsharma, that is true love.  when we are apart, we are together. When we are together, we can never be alone.

I hope that you to can find this kind of happiness.

Ken Reed Sr