There are definitely things you can so to spice things up. The longer a couple is together the more boring sex seems to become. When a couple first gets together there is a lot of gazing into one another's eyes, touching, and many emotions flowing. So how do you get this experience back? There are a few kinds of lovemaking you can experiment with: The first, look at each other during sex, many couples just close their eyes and they miss the important connection. Emotions can flow through your eyes. For an even deeper connection try opening your eyes during orgasm. Another thing you can try is called 'trance' (most men like this). In trance, you close your eyes and are in a trance like state the entire time. In this state you can play with your fantasies. Many women don't like this and feel unsatisfied after. The third thing I would recommend trying is role playing. Create a scenario that turns you both on. Make it a game. Tie each other up, use body paint. Do things that you wouldn't normally do, you get to play a role that isn't you, and enjoy the escape. Above all have fun with it and don't be afraid to try new things in the bedroom.