Why do men asked about their spouses past ...

Just tell him you prefer not to talk about past relationships.  At the same time you should not ask about ex-wives or ex-girlfriends.

Men or women don't want to know that the previous boyfriend had a larger penis than he has or the woman does not want to know that the ex-girlfriend was terrific and wild in bed. 

Hi,

    LMarie gave you a great advice, gave her 2 thumbs up.

Lie like a rug!!!  You will be hearing about it forever if he believes that he isn't the best.  Hell, you married him!!  That should mean something, but it doesn't.  He will use those "bigger men" in every argument you have, so keep your past as "tiny" as possible.  Say you told him that "Tom" was a little bigger.  The next fight you have he will be telling you that you should have married Tom, since he was so much bigger and better in bed than he is.  Lie, my friend.  Lie like a 3 year old that has gotten caught with their hands in the cookie jar.

You should just tell your husband that you don't want to discuss anything personal about ex-boyfriends especially if the previous one had a bigger penis or a better lover.  They don't want to hear that.  They want to hear that your previous lovers all have tiny penises and very lousy in bed that you could not stand them.  Instead of lying to him just say, you prefer not to talk about them.  At the same time, you should not also inquire about his ex-wives or girlfriends.  The past is the past, and should be left at that.

He needs you to build his damaged ego.  Sounds like his wounds from a past relationship have not had enough time to heal and he needs someone to lick them.  It's ok to help him get over her, but realize that this will not be a long-term relationship.  He will pat you on the head and show you the door when he feels better!  I hope you can still wag your tail on the way out...........

Blessings,

~ nmpb ~