I have come to realize what is important in a marriage for one person is not important for another.  There are so many variables.  This is a complicated matter by George. 

The question is would I, the answer is no, I am a very passionate and sexual person.  Now if there were potential, he was romantic, charming, kind, well read, good company, dependable, faithful then perhaps I would consider it.  Only if there were a flicker of something smoldering underneath.  Only if I sensed we could have the intimacy needed to keep lifeforce going.

No burn no way for me.