My first love left his pregnant girlfriend to be with me

change you phone number, change your cell phone, change your e-mail address. Stop talking to him. Cut him out of your life. In nine years you learned nothing? This guy is a complete and total jerk.

I totally agree with the post above. If he is willing to leave his girlfriend, along with two children, it shows he is not responsible and willing to commit and take responsibility for his actions.  Also, to kiss you even after you tell him no it shows he has no respect for you or your boyfriend.  I would definitely block his number. Why put yourself through that again?

you what co it

He cheated on you in high school, and now he is cheating on his pregnant girlfriend, the mother of his children.  He is scum.  If you have a great boyfriend that loves you and that you love, tell the old flame to take a hike.  He hasn't changed ~ he is just bored with his life as daddy.

Hi Lindsay, --------- You received excellent answers (thumb up, each). Please note that all answers say “dump him”. This man means troubles. He was abusive and cheated you now he is cheating on his girlfriend and mother of his 2 (well soon) children….. What makes you think he’ll change this 3rd time….. Please not be naïve. He’ll leave you too with a broken heart (and maybe 2 kids) !. It’s very appealing to get back your first love and to fix old relations, but it is an illusion that seldom becomes true….. Stay with your present boyfriend, that other guy means throwing good money after bad money (or a bird in the hand for a burd in the bush [that can turn out to be a snake !!!!!). Disconnect all relations with him, he’ll only bring troubles and heart pains (and probably 2 kids too)….. He is NO good for you. Forget about the “romantic” story….. it’s his excuse to get you and don’t fall into that romantic pit….. that pit is full of Cobras. Close the door behind you and throw the key. And never say no one warned you….. I warned you. Run away for your life: IF YOU LET HIM IN YOUR LIFE HE”LL RUIN THEM (in the same way he is doing to his present pregnant girlfriend). -------- Best regards,

yea..I actually do have advice. think of ur situation for a second. wheigh your feelings for these two guys and see who actually DESERVED you and all you have to give. the first guy is in his own affairs. he should take the responsability of being a father like a MAN. because if he had enough determination to get a girl pregnant twice..he can surely be a father. His children NEED him and his ex. gilfriend cant do it alone. put yourself in her shoes. wouldn't you like your child's father to be with you? i suggest u see who has been with you in the good and in the bad. who treats you like you should be treated. with respect, love, and CARE. Remember you are wonderful and deserve a great guy. not just someone who clames he loves you. if you love your current boyfriend and he loves you, stay with him. the other guy has left you for 9 YEARS! it's time to let go..atleast thats what i think. i'm not intruding..i hope. just trying to help. it's what i would do. ur welcome.

Hi Lindsay,(Thumbs Up to all) OronD took the words right out of my mouth(Laughing) Lindsay after nine Years how can you still have any feeling's for someone who had no respect or luv for you his actions specks for itself he's a selfish person who's not think of his kids and the girl he is with deserves better. I feel sorry for her as you should be too. However, If you have a nice relationship with ur boyfriend why would you want to jeopardize what you have and go back to what use to be think about it. Good Luck, Jackie PS.Don't do to others What you would'nt want done to you

my mom would say to this (she said it to me about a guy i thought was my destiny and as usual she was right) "he just wants you because you are hard to get. the minute he owns you he will lose interest".

i unfortunately think this about all men, so if you found one that it doesn't apply to - consider yourself lucky! :-)