My son's father and i met through one of our mutual friends. Me and him were good friends before we dated. I was'nt really all that interested in him, but he's a scorpio and he was aggressive at pursuing me. He had a great personality and it was hard to not fall for him. He was so kind, loveing, protective, he took care of me while i was pregnant financially. He is my first love, first everything.We lived together for a while during and after i had our son and ended up fighting all the time, till out of nowhere in september of 2008 he told me he gave the landlord notice he was moving out at the end of the month. I was devastated but knew we needed to work on some things financially before we lived together again. i moved in with my parents again and Things were ok between us, he came over everyday to see his son and me, we were still sexually involved on a daily basis practically, i helped him out with what i could, food,bills, ect. things werent perfect but they werent as bad as i thought either. every so often i would get a weird feeling about him loveing me still , i would ask him out right if he was not in love with me or if he didnt want to be with me anymore, he said if he felt that way, he would tell me and me wouldnt be together if that was the case. So i focused on getting myself together, back in school and taking care of our son. Then around valentines day, i noticed things started to change. we argued that day so he never came to see me or even so much as say happy valentines day to me. His calls became less frequent, he hardly told me he loved me , never came to see me on my birthday and so on. I confronted him, and said if he wasnt going to love me the way i deserved to be loved, then he needed to let me go, he responded saying he was going through so much and under stress, ( he was finalizing his divorce with his ex wife, they been seperated 6 years) , so i understood. I just gave him a little space, and stopped nagging him tobe with us so much. On memorial day , he picked up myself and our son and we went to his housefor the evening, made love, he told me i was his queen, we ate and watched movies. that was my last time over there. He left out of town june 1, and returned back around the 7th , he stopped by for a while to see his son, he was acting distant, but not anymore then he had been acting the previous months so i thought nothing of it. Im not completely innocent, i have a sharp tongue so if he makes me mad or hurts my feelings, i give it back to him.on fathers day, we argued over something dumb, and i never seen him. ABout a week later , he called me, he was at the doctors office, for his broken hand. I heard another girl in the backround and asked who that was, he wouldnt answer me, he kept tryin to change the subject, then resulting in me going over to his place to see who it was. I pulled up and saw him with another girl, i went ballistic, he was tryin to protect her, he was saying i was crazy and stalking him , i asked her how long they been together, she wouldnt answer, she was just smiling like it was funny. He looked me in my face and asked me "when have i ever said we were together"? i freaked out and threw a brick through his back window of his car, (that i helped pay for). He called the police on me and i went to jail. I went crazy in the jail cell overnight thinking about him and her. when i got out i called him and he had his phone on speaker the whole time letting her listen to what i was asking and talking about, i could hear her laughing. I asked him how he could do that to me and his son over her, he never gave me an answer, and asked about me paying for his car window. He kept denying being with me, and said i did too much to him. Its been about 3 weeks now, i have not spoken to him, he has not attempted to call us and i'm crushed over this. i need closure, i need to know why he did this to me. Im still in love with him, and he promised me he would never hurt me or cheat on me. I need someone elses opinion or advice other then my moms.
