I love my girlfriend but she wont give me oral.

Hi,

Sometimes before a female really figures out her style of fellatio,head can be uncomfortable due to the gag reflex.This guy may have pushed her head down or done something else that made her uncomfortable and she's carrying that with her.Whether it's a comfort issue or something else,don't push her.I agree with you,her reasoning doesn't really make sense,but if you are understanding and sensitive she'll come around and grow comfortable with you.

I think you should give her some time, if you really love her and she responds in kind. You should be patient and not force her. Not every woman enjoys giving oral sex and for some it does take time. Try to remember that when she did it for her previous boyfriend it was probably her first time.

Dear One:

The real question I suggest you consider is: Whose crap is this ?

Your girlfriend has the courage to admit that is her issue and from what I read from your account, she is not avoiding your question.

What she is really telling you is that she loves you.
And that she feels shame to have performed oral sex with another man. 

Can you hear this ? 

So, do not make it your issue.
Let her work it out.

Finally, if, as you say you do, you do love your girlfriend,
then love her where she is.
Power has no place in a loving relationships.

You cannot make her give you oral sex, neither can she force you to do whatever. This is not an even transaction, it is not a powerplay, it is simple human pleasure.

Personally, I find great pleasure in giving pleasure to someone I love.

No compensation, no return of the favor, no conditions, no nothing needed in exchange of the pleasure.

Love is a gift you give.

She's getting away with murder here folks can't you see! This man is willingly going down on her and she has no objection but when it comes to him getting service she backs out?! Give a man a break here your saying he has no room for complaint? Man I would press her like the Detroit Pistons on this one.