I have figured out what im going to do, I got the answer from the help that everybody has given me (I appreciate it) and it also came from my head. I am going to be the best friend she ever had and just sit back and let her and her boyfriends relationship take its course because if I am a threat to him then he will eventually screw up that is when im going to show her that im there for her. I am just going to relax and let them have fun but like I said there is nothing I can do without being responsible for their break-up except for just being there for her and let her man screw up. So thank you all again for your help, I will keep this question open to see what everybody has to say and I will post on here one last time if something between me and her happens, if it doesnt happen then this question will stay open forever. So wish me luck in my waiting room to get my love and hopefully she wants to choose me and doesnt feel like she has to choose me.