Tom, You are very young to be taking this so seriously. At your age you will certainly be questioning things and exploring possibilities of the life that lies ahead of you as you approach adulthood. Slow down and enjoy your youth. In my opinion you are to young to be thinking this much about sex. Turn your attention to other things of more importance and in time things should become clearer. I do know what teenagers can be like though and I advise you do not tell your friend how you feel as you may make trouble for yourself.
