This love is crazy

This summer I planned on being a counselor for bible camp. There I saw these 2 good looking guys 1 w/ blonde hair and blue eyes and the other a little uglier but more muscluar. I spent half of the week at bible camp swooning over the blondie, then I realized I liked the brown haired one, Matt. He comforted me when I saw the ambulance going towards my aunt's house during camp, and he sounded like he cared. He is a great guy and I was a counselor for his little sister who loves me! My friend says he is weird and not popular & has issues & his mom helps him with alot of stuff & he is stupid. I know he isn't the best looking guy, but isnt love not finding the perfect guy but seeing his imperfections perfectly? Im a believer in love at first sight, i just think that msot people don't see it at first. I can say I love him but i wont see him until next summer & its driving me crazy. he is a year older than me and i said bye to him but its just driving me crazy. HELP


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" I refuse to have a Battle of Wits with an unarmed person".

"Whomsoever Much is Given, of him Much More shall be Required”

Although, I think I came across your questions about LOVE at 1st sight. I think you have a great head on your shoulder and a heart that has made God very proud.

I still believe you are infatuated. However, you obviously spent some time with him, learned his faults, you may have observed someof them, yet you still want to be near him. You are headed in the right direction. Looks are superficial and will fade. It is important to be attracted and the attraction should be spiritual, physical and even mental. However, the the 1st two are the most important. Stay in contact with him, build your relationship together, centered around the Word of God and the rest will works itself out.

 

God Bless you and good luck...

 


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live it try 2 love it and u will be ok

u know am that kind of person who dont believe in love at all,but this year i`ve met this gr8 guy and he make me change my idea about it,am how 2 say it the most popular girl @my town and every 1 wish 2 talk with me,but this guy isnt that gd lookin there are prettier than him,but he is so gr8 4 me my perfect match,so i guess when u luv some 1 for real u dont care how he look or wat ppl think or say about him u just love him with every part of you,so luv him and just dont care wat ppl says and u know if u are so believer in luv u would and u have 2 believe that if this is true love it will surrvive threw every thn ,so why not wait till the next year or try 2 find some why 2 talk with him or by his mail(sure if u are 100% sure that u luv him)gd luck


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Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

This is why the telephone, the internet, and the pen and paper were invented ~ so long distance love could grow.  Take the time apart to really get to know each other.  Ask some good questions and see if you have the same interests in common.  At some point in your life, you have to start listening to yourself and not to your friends.  They don't have to like him.  It would be great if they did, but you need to fill your life with people that mean something to YOU.  Nobody is perfect.  We all have flaws, and it is our own imperfections that make us individuals.  If you see his flaws and they are not flaws to you, then you are starting at a good point.

 


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