How do i get him back???

At the beginning of the summer i got asked out by a boy i really really liked. I have not had sex before (Im in high school) but he has been having sex ALOT for the past couple of years. (he is my age too) So at first he didn't want to go out with me because he is the guy that does not have relationships over the summer to make time for sex. But he ended up liking me enough to where he decided on the very first day of summer to ask me out. I was so excited and was suddenly head over heels for him. a couple weeks later he dumped me because 2 girls offered him sex whenever he pleased. He also was talking to this girl (also a virgin) and today texted me and told me that he decided to ask her out. I was devistated and it broke my heart so i told him that. i also told him that it made me mad bcause the reason he broke up with me is was because he didnt want a relationship. i told him that i've been crying wanting him back every day since he loft me  and he blocked my phone number and any other means of communication. He works at Sea World which i heve a season pass to so i could see him there but i dont want to freak him out. BUT I WANT HIM BACK!!! i dont know what to do to get him back. Somebody PLEASE help me!!!


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Open the pod bay doors HAL

Why would you want to be with a boy who doesn't want to be with you? Also, knowing him as you do, what kind of misery do you think you'd let yourself in for if you were to develop a relationship with this guy? Girls make more of an emotional investment when in a relationship and expect the guy to suddenly change and that doesn't happen, especially with a younger guy who can pick and choose from other girls who make themselves available sexually. Dear Heart, forget this guy and save your virginity for the right guy, one who really cares for you, and doesn't feel like he's always in a candy store with girls as the candy.

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It is the best of times and the worst of times.  There is nothing as exciting as a summer romance and nothing as painful as a summer breakup.  Honey, this is only the beginning.   Hopefully, you will fall in love a hundred times before you settle on someone really special.  I am sorry to say this, but this guy is probably too immature to have a relationship with anyone.  Just know one thing:  If you had had sex with him and he dumped you...how sorry would you be now?  One day a wonderful guy will come into your life and you will look back onthis and laugh (if you think of it at all).  Just enjoy the feeling of being ALIVE!!  Whether you are feeling love or feeling pain...it is great!!  It shows you have a heart!  It shows that you are a caring person!!  It shows that you are not simply existing in this world!!  Honey!!  YOU are living it!!!

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Hi heartbroken,

    You've got great advices from Gary and Lyndalou, one thumb each.  I think that you should forget about this man.  He does not care for you and he is selfish.  Please move on and don't waste your time on such a man. 

   Take care and be wise.

 

well sorry to say this but this guy is soooo not worth it if he going around having sex with anyone and not comited with it not worth it your just breaking your heart even more by just thinking he good for you.

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