My fiance and I have been together for 2 year and he says I am a neat freak and he is sloppy, he says he doesn't want to buy me a ring yet, because of the way I am can you give some tips to help?
Love is the battery of life....
Hi,I am afraid you won't like my answer. Your relation start bad. What does that means (not buying a ring because the way you are ) ? ...... that is the biggest insult you can ever get..... in other words he says: Either you change or...... keep waiting...... Oh noooooooooooo. You have yo make it clear: Do you like me the way I am or not..... If the answer is a clear yes than there is no reason to pull you by the nose.... if the answer is a clear no (or a hesitant yes) better move on and find someone you deserve and love you the way you are..... Personally I think it's a poor excuse: If he really loved you he would accept you regardless if you are neat or sloppy.... it shouldn't separate between loving people.... it's a minor issue (and can be fixed as well..... simple compromise). I appologise if I was too direct and blunt. Best regards,
even though the sun is so powerful there is always half of the earth that is not lit up.
look he just doesn't want to buy you a ring quite yet. it is SO an excuse. Stay the same. if it really isn't an excuse then don't change. if he doesn't like all of you then u should dump him as fast as u can.
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