I have a friend that just got divorced and we have ...

Looks like he forgot how it feels like to stare a beautiful women! You are lucky I guess , from the way it sounds it looks like he is willing to do what it takes and invest in all those small things that build up a good relationship.

I personally think there is nothing wrong in being a bit ambiguous about your feelings, especially in the beginning . Don't worry about you not telling him how you feel, it is OK to hold it in for a while . Some of us are a bit more protective then others and tend to be more careful about our heart. Anyways wait until you are sure this is what you want and you are sure that his behavior/feelings are real.  If he wants an answer just say you don't want to mislead him , if he really cares for you he will be patient and understanding.

He likes you for sure, otherwise he wouldn't have asked you out at least on Valentine's Day! And about the feelings part of it...you got to try him out to find it out. So be brave and if you really like him send him an ecard ( http://www.123greetings.com/love/be_mine/bmine10.html ) and let your feelings flow...if it doesn't work out you can always be friends...

Well I really think he likes you, but he doesn't know what to say.  He has had the nerve to ask you out but doesn't have enough nerve to tell you how he feels.  Im sure he likes the way you look, but I think his silence is coming from the fact that he doesn't want to mess up.  He may not be too confident in the relationship area right now because he just got a divorce.  Him asking you out and his stares are definately indierct and non-verbal cues for you to start the conversation about the situation at hand.  He's a wounded man right now so you have to be the dominant one who take scharge. Once you guys start to talk you can get a feel for wether you're a rebound or if he really likes you.  Be careful, but have balls.  This could be just the thing for the both of you.  I wish you well. 

i think he has feelings for you .. he did ask you to be his valentine ! but you should keep it slow  since he got divorced recently .. wait for the right moment babeeeee ^_*

Maybe he's just a creep. Why would a guy sit and sare. Uness he's truly inlove.