Is it cheating if you don't kiss just hug?

Generally hugging friends is not considered cheating.  Grabbing their private parts while hugging could be construed as cheating.  Cheating is forming an emotional/sexual relationship with someone other than your spouse.

This hugging probably isn't your real problem.  Your real problem probably revolves around trust issues.

     I have to agree with profitbob. I would just like to add that, more that likely, you know how you are feeling in relationship to this hug. Hugging in itself is not cheating; however, if the hug were strictly a hug of friendship ( which I do all of the time with males and females) you wouldn't need to ask. I feel that possibly your concern is if other people could become aware of how you are truly feeling. Be true to yourself, and the questions have a tendecy to dissolves.

                             Take Care,

                                           Daniel

well it just depends...if you are spending time with one another and you know you both have feelings for eachother then it might be a slight case of cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend. so just be careful.

If you are married, or are in a relationship, and you are hugging someone that you have romantic feelings for, then yes, you are cheating.  You are touching someone other than your significant other with the wrong emotions in your heart and the wrong ideas in your head.  A brief hug is fine, but if this is a long, drawn-out bodies touching almost everywhere hug, then yes, you are cheating.  If you got caught doing this, you would pull away immediately.  That reaction indicates that you know you are doing something wrong or something that you shouldn't be doing.

rosebud,

It all depends...was it a romantic hug or a friendly hug(like you hug your mother hug). If it was a romantic hug with the touch of feeling all over the body or butt....yes that's cheating.

i dont think its cheating at all. i have friends i hug and they are just friends. hope this helps