What should I do, I have a 8 years love relation ...

After eight years you should know the man by now... but that rarely seems to be the case. Get involved with things that interest him,  (but don't push your way in to a guy's night) men can talk about cars, sports, action movies. Most find this more tender than a candellight dinner and sappy movie. Being around is usually a guy's idea of relationship maintanence and if there is something wrong, the last thing they want to do is talk about it. Remember, they are still testosterone ladden cavemen, don't over complicate something by reading too much into it. If your heart hurts, you don't want to leave. The most important thing you need to know though is that you are doing what is right for you. Imagine yourself ten years from now and your heart and brain can see you through

Hi Neva,

    You have this love relations with this man for 8 years and he has not propsed marriage?  That's too long.  Do you want to be continually used by this man?  I think that he does not want to commit to you and what he's doing is giving you hints to get out of his life. He just can't say it.  Actions speak louder than words.

He does not love you enough to commit to you.  Don't waste your time.  You deserve better.

Take care.

maybe its his way of saying he wants to spend more time with you alone to himself. or maybe hes shy. go with what your heart tells you