Is it love or not?

hey, well it is possible 2 fall in love even though you havnt seen her yet, buuuut its like your falling in love in what yall 2 are talking about my homeboy was in your situation b4 all though in his case he wasnt married, he actually got out of a 7 year relationship... my homeboy started 2 go on those dating websites and he did found someone. after a long month for talking and getting to know each other he didnt fell in love with her cause they have never met [only talking] plus there were trust issues he didnt want her 2 play with his heart cause who wants that?? after all they met and good to say they are together its just been several months for him..... over all "YOU AND ONLY YOU CONTROL YOUR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS!"

Oh by the way good luck take care.

I feel that due to your situation it is more likely to be a deep infatuation.

However I have been wrong before and people have fallen in love just through correspondence. It was a very common thing for World War 2 vets to come home, meet their pen pals and end up marring them.

I sincerely hope that she is the one for you and that all works out well.

Good luck and best wishes. 

Hi,
I would like to shed some light from a different angle.  I have this strange feeling that you still love your ex-wife and want her terrebly back..... Please note that you don't reffer to her as your ex-wife but as your wife..... ("My wife left me....").   No offence please but it could happend that you are craving for love (very understandable) and it's not surprising that you fell in love so easily (just because you are so ready for it).  My advise: Better check yourself twice - Are you really in love with her or is it because you are craving for love and warmth ?.  On top of it, better see her, spend some time with her, get knowing her more, she might seem 2B very nice from far away, and totally different when you meet her face-2-face.   Sorry, I don't want to take the air out of your sails but I don't want you to fail again..... In fact I can sense that you are a nice sensetive guy who deserves much more love and warmth in his life.
Best regards,

Did you and your wife divorce after she left you? If not, are you somewhat hoping she will return to you? It sounds to me that you are going through wishful thinking with an additional input of imagination so please be careful in controlling your emotions. If not you can hurt yourself as well as this new-found love. One of the most uncertain relationships you can enter is a rebound relationship which includes you, the new-found love and a bit of your ex that  makes the relationship extremely unstable. I would be very much interested in hearing how you feel after your first face-to-face meeting with your new acquaintance. Please let me know.