I am in a relationship, with a man thats has been ...

I think you are quite young to take on all the baggage that is involved. Be careful and think a bit more about what is in store for you. First, he will have to divorce his wife. Who will be responsible for the children? If he, are you ready to undertake the major responsibility which will fall on you since he will be working. I would suggest you look for a less complicated relationship where you don't so much going against you.

Hi,
Rosie gave you an excellent answer.  The first question you have to ask yourself is: Do I really love him that much that I am ready for that huge sacrifice ?.  On top of it, you'll sure want to have children of your own... Would you be able to take care of 4, 5 children ?.... and would his income be sufficient for your enlarge famaly ? (assuming you'll be too bussy to go to work).
Besr gerards,