samiha,
People love for many reasons, now days instead of asking people "do you love me" make sure you act "why do you love me". People love for looks, money, and for what you have, such as houses, cars, clothes, and sex. You have to investigate why people love you, when they say that they love. People have forgotten what love really is. Love is eternal. It is not limited by time. When you commit yourself to loving someone , you make that commit to all the person is. Not for anything else.