okay bitch ahead ^
um i think your really sweet, but she probably just wants to have some fun right now and you giving her a lack of freedom is not abilling her to do so. i say, wright her a long note. dont be needy in it. just tell her exactly how you feel and how you fealt and how your ready to change for her( with the freedom stuff ). at the end of it tell her this is your last time you will contact her and when she wants to talk to you, you'll be there.
after that, do not call, text, email, write NOTHING. have fun, go out with friends, be single. its okay to be upset, ive been thru tough breakups myself but when i act needy they never want me back but when i go off and act like i can live without them they take me back. girls like a guy with independence. and if she loves you and misses you she'll come to you. let her come to you. and if she doesnt, its okay its just not meant to be. if your meant for each other it will all work out in the end. but you have to respect her decision, by you keep contacting her its just pissing her off more. so say your final goodbye and maybe she'll come back for a new hello.