Why loss of sexual desire for my partner

Hi, ---------------- Sex is very often an indicator to the relations..... No offence, please, but it seems that your relations deteriorated to a very low point and it is not surprising that you don't mind if you have sex with him or not..... The key to solve the problem is your relations..... once you bring them back to track (and love & respect returns) no doubt that the good sex will return too. ------------------ Best regards,

Hi,

     My friend OronD gave you a great advice, gave him 2 thumbs up.

     Women can't make love to a man if she knows that he does not care for her, does not trust and value her.  So it's  normal that you feel that way.  You need  to speak with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and how his treatment of you makes you lose the desire for intimacy.  If he loves you and cares about how you feel, he will try to correct this.  So that depends on him.

Hi Icebaby ,  My friends OronD and Dogbreeder are correct 2 thumbs for each .  Sex and desire for us women is emotional , therefore we have a hard time accepting a man's harsh words & actions and then accepting them with open arms in our bedrooms .  Have a talk with him , explain to him that he hurts you with his words making you feel he does not respect ,love , trust and yes value you .  If he loves you he will try to be softer with you , but that is a two way street , you must also be with him .  If you two cannot work this out on your own , and love one another then get in to some counseling .  Do not let this go any further than it has , it will not get any better on it's own . Talk to him .

Hello Icebaby;

You have got some very good advice from my esteemed colleagues - if I can use that term. You have to talk to him and let him know what effect his callousness is having on you . After-all; who can share in the ultimate physical expression of love, with someone who devalues or belittles you? 

* Just a word of caution about the biological bond that the man has with his child. That is not something that should be trifled with. If either, at any time, feels that their bond is being threatened in any way, defenses will go up immediately, and the problem may just intensify from there.

I wish you luck with your issues,  ~J