The loss of a loving x husband...

I am so sorry for you......I am lucky enough to have a wonderful man....However, I do know that if something would happen to him, he would want me to continue to enjoy life........If your husband is watching over you, thats what he wants for you also..........

Hi,

   So sorry about the loss of your husband.  But it is not good to stop living because he passed away.  Make some new friends who share the same interests, revive your relationships with your relatives, join a club depending on your interests and hobbies.

   You don't have to jump into another relationship if you don't feel comfortable yet.  Time will help you heal and feel better.

Take care.

Faye,

Your ex does not want you to be unhappy for the rest of you life, he is on the other side now and he wants you to ejoy life now, and when the time comes and you see each other on the other side. it is not a easy thing to except. We miss the physical part of our loved ones so much, but we owe it to them and everyone that cares about us to morn, and continue to live life to the fullest, because none of us know how much time we have left here. So it is important to make the rest of our time here quality and good time. I believe that it is not how long your are on this planet, but what you do while your here. And I think that your ex would want you to enjoy your life and always feel him in your heart, All of our loved ones that we have lost, wants us to live the best quality life that  we can untill we meet again. Faye, he does not want you to be sad, thats why you love him.

Best wishes,

G