If he loses his virginity to you, are you pressured to stay?

Sticky and maybe a little flattering...

It seems to me you really feel pretty much the same about both, and the one distinction is the virginity thing. I don't think it obligates you in any way. Sure, you're his first and that always means something, but it certainly doesn't necessarily mean you have to be with him forever...

With all dure respect, it sounds like manipulation. Be assertive, tell them both you need your time, or choose the one YOU want to be with, regardless of any lasting impression your sexuality may or may have not left upon either of them...

(PS Way to go, sis )

Wow. It's really weird for a guy to be so obsessed with "his first". I always thought it was only girks who were concerned about this. I certainly wasn't...

I think he'll get over it eventually. Be gentle when you let him down. This should br a good experience for him. 

I think time on your own is a good idea , Who knows you might meet another great guy while you are at it. But when you are alone it is better to you to decide who you want to be next to you , who you want to be a partner with it won't work with both of them believe me not for a long shot for sure. Take your time and just try to figure out who you miss the most..... Good Luck.

It's sad that your ex had to manipulate you into having his first sexual encounter with you after he knew you were with someone else.

I'd suggest telling both guys you need your space and when you've had enough time to really think about who you care about, and not who cares about who's virginity was taken, than you can make a decision.

Good luck.

You are in a tight corner are'nt you. Listen losing virginity is a very precious thing. Hence i do think that the person that lost his virginity to you, should be the one.

Take care