How to get a long time relationship?

Trust   Real...Love and mutual respect for each other ! 

God Bless,

Jackson

Jackson , Nice answer thumb up . 

Bheybhie25 , I will also add communication , fidelity and sense of humor . Resolve conflict quickly .  Both must learn to compromise . Communicate your needs emotional and physical . Keep the romance alive and well , spontaneity . Keep and use a sense of humor . Strong bonding relationship take time and nuturing , some say work . I don't call it work , it is love in progress , it should flow natural and easy . A connection of the heart , body , mind and soul .

L.U.S.T. Or in other words, Love. Understanding. Sex. Trust.

Add communication and it all boils down to the little thing we call 'unconditional love.'

That's it, in a nutshell.

accepting each other and not trying to change one another. communicating each others needs, understanding each of you have feelings, compromising (very very important), learning and accepting that you are not always right, it is not just your way, and when things get hard in the relationship work through it together with understanding and compromising instead of blowing off the problem.also you cannot get mad at him for the way he feels. everyone is entitled to their own feelings.

another good way to keep the relationship going is to change up the sex once in a while, watch a dirty movie, get some tips, that way you will always be his exciting fantasy girl, even when your wearing a t shirt and have messy hair.

You might flip out for each other, but if all the right elements are not in place it is just not going to work. You can try to talk yourself into being his one and only untill death do you part,but if the things that the two of you have that blends together isn't there, it is down the tube.

You didn't say how old you and him are, but I bet you are pretty young still because you haven't recognized what makes a remarkable and lasting relationship in someone you know that has what you are searching or looking for yourself.No one person can make a relationship last, it takes lots of work and mutual respect and love. The kind of love that lasts through good and bad times, not just when things are coming up roses.I think when you really find the right person, it will come together like you are two peas in a pod. It will just click in so many ways that it want seem to be something you have to put on airs about. It will almost come naturally all the way around. If things should hit a snag or two though,it's always fun making up.I wish you luck.

The one and only thing will define all. Acceptance.

there is no secret really...

i think routine, lack of communication, absence of trust/sex/humor are what make a total failure of a relationship...

if you really care and love each other there should be no serious problems...

if you both love each other and enjoy spending time together you need to build on that. it has to be right or it wont work. you have to also work at it to make it right. just because you are toghether now, means you will always be together. you both have to want to be together and work to stay together.