After a long day at work then kids, cooking and ...

It is so hard balancing your children, cooking, cleaning, working, and on top of that having sex with your husband. Where do we have time to feel all sexy and get in the mood? We don't! All I can say is that I share in your exhaustion. I have three kids and me and my ex husband really struggled to have a sex life. What worked for us was we would get a babysitter or ask our parents to take the kids for at least two nights a week (this is why god invented sleepovers, for husbands and wives to have sex!) and we would make sure to have sex during that time. I know how romantic, scheduling time to do it, but this was our only option and it actually worked. I would say to ignore all the statistics of how many times a week married people have sex because it is so individual. Me and my husband would do it twice a week at least. I have girlfriends who did it once and some even less. It is really about how you and your husband feel and if you are satisfied with your sex life.

Hi,

    Married women have the moral obligation to satisfy their husbands sexually regardless how tired they are.  How often?  As often as the husband asks for sexual intercourse.  That way, husbands will not look for sex somewhere else.  If you satisfy your husband, there is no reason for cheating not unless they are not satisfied with one woman.

If you feel worn out after a busy day take a warm bath leave the sex for the morning.

Hi,

     If you are so tired doing everything, you need to ask your husband to help with cleaning the house.  Tell him that you are overwhelmed and that you feel so tired to even make love with him. 

    So don't clean the house, that can wait.  When he asks for sex, do it lovingly and willingly.  Then if you do that, you probably will have the cleanest house in your neighborhood.LOL....

I don't quite agree with that. My father cheated on my Mother and she NEVER told him no in the bedroom. She always cooked, cleaned, took care of herslef and me, and still it wasn't enough to keep him from cheating. I know that if a man (or woman) doesn't get sex, it could mean other problems though as well, but I don't think that is the only reason for an affair.