Give him advice one time ..... Tell him to talk to his wife about his feelings and seek some professional help . Be careful and watch yourself do not get involved in this man's marriage . It is not healthy nor is it right for him to be talking to you about their sexual problems or any other martial problems they may or may not have . He should be turning to his wife not you . You may end up with an extremely bad encounter with him and his wife , he is breaking a bond with his wife , disrespecting her and is betraying her confidence , by inviting you in to their bedroom . NOT GOOD ! How would you like it if your spouse went to another person to complain about your sex life , most women and men would be upset and would feel betrayed . He may be looking for an Adultress and is testing the waters with you . DO NOT get involved . All married men who are looking to committ adultery ALWAYS say their sex life is bad , or my wife does not like sex , we no longer have sex , she does not understand me , oldest lines known to man . If this is his game do not play it , if he is truly looking to work on his marriage , then again tell him to talk to his wife and seek some marriage counseling . I have many male friends would never talk to them about their martial problems . And I think you know this is wrong , since you feel uneasy , as well you should . These conversations with this married man are not appropriate .