Wow this is about as confusing as its going to get...theres alot that doesnt really make sense ova here.. If your ex bf wants to get back with you why is there another gal in the equiastion thats giving him heartache coz she jus wants to be friends and he wants more? My dear i think tell him how you feel, and then distance yourself completely from his other relationship problems. Even if u want to help him, and hav all good intentions. U never know how things would work out and at the end you dont want fingers pointing at you and being accused of breaking them up because you wanted him 4 ureself.. He on the other hand should seriously sit down and disect his own feelings and wat he wants..or who.. Remember life and love is not complicated by itself, we humans complicate it.. If i was you i wud tell him my feelings and then stay absent for a bit..enough that he can miss you and make up his mind as to what and who. Goodluck and i hope you dont break your heart ova this. Take care nw