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God almighty

My life is in solitude now days.I am neither able to judge my love nor forget her.

My life is in solitude now days. 6 months back I met a girl on internet and fell in love with her.We used to be very happy. She is from hospitality industry and has to travel different countries.She was also suffering from brain problem.She had undergone through brain surgery in France. Her right hand is now paralysed because of side effect of brain surgery. She started avoiding and telling me she can't marry me now as she is handicapped.She told me to continue as a pal.Few days back somehow I got in her mail account.I was shocked to see the biggest cheat in my life.She was in contact with more than 6 guys at the same time.I was all down to see my mails and others mail were manipulated and sent to people after changing the names on them.I spoke to her about this. She said that her seniors did all this.They used her account to put her down.she swear on her mother and dad and said she didn't do it.she said she is not a cheater.I contacted a guy who was in her list and was again shocked to listen the same words what she spoke to me. I asked her and she said that guy was her good friend and was fooling me as she told him about her love relationship with me. She abused me and doesn't want to talk to me. She blames and says I broke her trust by logging in her account and contacting other guy.She blames me for everything whereas i feel like cheated .I apologised for reading her mail but I was all in dark. My problem is I am not able to judge whether she is a cheat or not ,she cries and shouts on,she tells me to go away and she hates men now.....i am all down..I am neither able to forget her nor judge her.I am in solitude ..Please help me .

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Posted 2009-09-20T04:37:37Z
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Ethel McTigue

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If by this letter there is this much DRAMA, I really think you need to move on.... You will get over this in time. And I think you should try to meet someone in person, and not over a computer. You obviously didn't trust her to begin with, so there would never be TRUST in that relationship anyway. MOVE ON

Posted 2009-09-20T04:47:33Z

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Hi,

It's very important to trust her, although you don't believe her. Get to know her longer before you even think of marriage. If you love her, give her another chance.

If you can't believe what she tells you, then it's better for you to move on. There's no use prolonging a relationship if you don't have trust.

Take care.

Posted 2009-09-20T04:51:59Z

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Hi , This woman seems to have an answer to everything . Gulity people many times try to turn the tables on you , perhaps this is her motive stating she does not trust you for reading her e-mail . Is she angry because you read her e-mail , or is she angry because you discovered other men in her life , one of which you contacted . She is causing you pain something your partner in life should never do to you . Don't settle for anything less than a woman who you can build a life with , life of love , fidelity and trust , which will bring you peace and happiness . When a man and woman love each other they trust one another with their very lives . Trust is vital in all relationship , without trust you have no relationship with this woman at all , what you do have is sleepless nights , heartache and wasted time . I wish you the best and the love of a good woman .

Posted 2009-09-20T06:47:01Z

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