Nice !
life is complicated because when we face "situations" we are not able to foresight the consecuences of our actions in the future.
We can only take decisions on the base of few fragmented information, under emotional influence and with limited time..
Remember: the value of a person is not based on what kind of trouble he faces, but how he is going to handle those situation.
With only above assumption humankind would have extingued thousand of years ago.. so, why we are still here?
"Relationship" the human race is high social centric: if you isolate 100 people on 100 islands, you may get 99 person diyng alone, and maybe 1 trying to fight all he can. If you isolate a group of 100 people toghether on 1 island.. you end up creating a city, a society !
Bottom line is: never face the world totally alone ! (unless you are 1 tought guy) always seek friendship, look for complicity ! don't ask for plain help, ask for partecipation and i'm sure life would unveily some of it's mistery... (if you do something, maybe you find a person already got that experience so he can give you some info and so on! it's not all that difficoult)
Hope this helps ! ;)