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Why do some men deny having a girlfriend (when ...

Why do some men deny having a girlfriend (when there is  hard proof that they do) to someone who is totally irrelavant to their lives now? Don´t they feel bad that his girlfriend is proud to have him and he can´t even admit they are together?


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When life presents a challenge, take your shot.

I think that it really just boils down to the fact that some people are wonderful and some people are assholes.  There will always be the guys who value what they have, the person they are with, and they want to share that love with the world.  Then, there are the guys who seek satisfaction, but are never really satisfied.  They could be with a fantastic woman, but they still want more, and refuse to admit that they are tied down by anything.  I guess is why we have the ability to pick and choose who we want to be with.  Sometimes it takes some time to figure out what a person is really like, but just remember: never settle for something less than what you want and deserve.  There is someone out there who will love you, appreciate you, and want to scream out to the world that all they want is you.  Don't accept less than that.


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I know this and hope a lot of girls realize it as well. I agree with you but I don´t think they do it because they´re ... they can be nice but have a problem with being satisfied and always seeking for challenge. I think there was an article on an English newspaper about Eistein having this problem. I guess this can affect a lot of intelligent men out there. Thank you for your kind answer.


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The measure of 

LOVE is  what you are willing to give up for those you LOVE. 

Men are men. Irrelavant people in their lives probably would not care enough to even ask. Men in general don't "feel bad" for anyone. There are exceptions but very few. Just proves, if you think he should "feel bad"since his girlfriend is "proud" to have him he is not "in" the relationship...just "showing up" for the relationship. 

So,"why" you ask...simple ,,,,, " Consquences" result "IF" if people are both "in" a relationship dealing with every issue on the face of the Earth....money,time,etc. Men have a 'different' brain from woman and as long as they can maintain a 'distance' and 'deny' emotionally they desire another human,in their minds...they are FREE...free to answer only to themselves if the "direction of the wind" changes and a better woman floats by. Face it men who do this "LIE" to save themselves. Unless and until there is "something in it" for this type of man he will always lie about anything that suits him. He is number one and he can and will justify "anything...anywhere" that benefits him at the exclusion of others.

If you are the woman mentioned here...RUN in the opposite direction. Think about this question...How can a man go out after a quarter of a century of marriage to a woman who supported him while in college...took care of him...loved him...had his children...etc.etc....and pick-up a bar whore trolling for married rich men and then announce to his wife "I need space"....then when his wife finds out ....DENY it and then deny it again.

Simple,it suits his needs. Answer to age old question...."why do men cheat"?...Answer...

"oppurtunity"....and cheat can mean...emotionally,physically, mentally or financially.  The keyword here is "justify"....the means will always "justify" to men,(at least 99.9%),the end.

As woman who do have a 'different' brain'become more like men in our world the line will be erased and woman will be capable of the same.

  

  


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Oh, no, I am now the irrelavant person as I have ran as fast as I could! It´s the innocent who they go after or maybe this person is the right one for him as she may not be so concerned with this sort of thing. In my opinion, It´s happiness the pursuit of life and if one has it then nothing else matters. Thank you for your well thought out answer.


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Know what?You're right..I've already encountered guys who denies that they have girlfriends..and I don't like what they're doing.It kinda piss me off.:D


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The true answer is that in past situations men say they are with someone and the mood changes right before your eyes you know what i mean i hve women friends that are just that. we talk about kids,life,music,silly stuff and its coo to have lady friends your age but some u say your married or gf then its like hi bye thats it and the chance for anything more at all is behind this grey wall now,so sometimes i hesitate to answer.


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