Well if it were back in the days when woman had few resources and different social rules you would say "poor thing" But you dear have all the advantages- I say, run, do not walk, run as fast and as far away as possible. We do not live on the frontier anymore  where there were no choices.

Now adays they have womans shelters and laws-good thing no kids- then the abuse really starts you are trapped. You do know these men only get more and more violent. And my gosh honey with the internet you can be in love again in a matter of weeks. But make sure  you do not choose the same type. I would suggest consoling to find out what keeps you there and why you are attracted to these types of men. And lastly you will need be strong enough to say no and walk away.God he is a cheater and hits you -double abuser-What in the hell are you thinking. It will ruin your life... so run  yes run and keep going until he is no threat-where ever it may be.