Hello Meg
ePals is an adult-led experience. That means as a teacher or a parent, you should join ePals, create a profile on behalf of you and your child(ren), create monitored accounts for your child(ren) and search our database for classes or families that meet your needs.
In the case of families, I would suggest that when you use ePals' search page, you select "homeschool" as one of your criteria. This will result in our database pulling out a lot of profiles that have been created by parents as opposed to teachers.
S.