The answer I'm about to give you may not be the one you like(may already know).

Their are many skin preparations out there that combat this problem that many females have. Of course, there is surgery. But my mom had this problem and used some kind of cream or facial makeup all her life. There is the old wise tale that if you shave more often the hair will only grow back more and darker but that just isn't true! You either have the genes or you don't. It sounds like you got an extra gene from your dad that you would very much NOT like to have.