how could a long distance relationship works
A long distance relationship is difficult because there are so many temptations, deceptions and gossips. But it could work if you really love each other. But sometimes love can be deceive so that is why you need to have faith and trust. It really doesn't matter what is your means of communication as long as your relationship is healthy. Always ask for God's help and trust his plans for us.
Don't be afraid to of what you don't know or what you can't see. Probably someone is just trying to deceive you. Always trust your partner and always be honest and true when it comes to your feelings.
It can be a breethe, if you know that this is temporary, and when exactly you will be living together again.
Honestly, mine was not such a breethe, especially because we already had issues when we were still living together. Luckily, at the end everything turned to better. I had flexible schedule, so I could visit him often, sometimes (summer, Christmas) staying for one month together with him, getting to know new friends, etc.
The optimal setting would be as follows. You know exactly when you will be together again forever. You call each other's homes as your common homes, visit often, and get to know friends. You share your daily routines. For example, your significant other is in a new country, and you are going to move after him once you finish studies. Move some of your things (and your common things) to his/her place, decide together on new furniture, etc. Get close to his/her friends, meet then every time you visit, send them emails when you are away. Look at the current situation as a temporary stop, and the future together as permanent.
I'd advice against hours on skype, however. Enjoy your present time with friends that are nearby, do sports, go out. Do have your small rituals, such as good morning call, postcards, etc. I would not say it requires a lot of effort, it is good to miss a person, but in a positive way.
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Hardly!
It cant work because you dont know if he/she is cheating on you
its hard believe me i was in one just talk all the time and if yall really like each other yall can make it im still in one and i live in ohio and he lives in WV
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As a general rule they don't unless their is more than one relationship going on. Let's face it, people get lonely and need companionship more than once a month or so. If one of you are willing to relocate - I going to have to say no.
First and foremost, all relationship had the same common factor to make it work. Be it long-distance or not. You and your partner should respect, love and trust each other. You may think that it's all given since you and your partner are together since day one. My point is that, no matter what happen, no matter how far the distance between you and your partner is, you must and always think that you have to remain faithful and loyal. Aside from that, seize the opportunity that technology gives you. Emails, mobile phones will be the bridge for the two of you. Maintain constant communication. Send cards every now and then, let him feel your presence as often as you can so that he won't get the chance of cheating on you. All in all, you just have to love him the way no one else will love him. :)
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