How could a long distance relationship works

Here is a great article on how to make long distance relationships work. Enjoy!

Maintain as much very regular contact as possible, especially by voice. These days it is realatively inexpensive to call long distance, even internationally. Email contact can be daily, and it is always wonderful to see that there's a message waiting in the in-box from a loved one. Save your money and travel half way, or all the way, to meet up from time to time. Occasionally send little gifts and reminders of you. However, up to a point, I do not believe that (long term) absence makes the heart grow fonder, usually.

I have been in a long distance relationship and I believe that the only reason why it worked was because we were so in love.  I think that it didn't matter whether we were talking on the phone or whether we were with one another, we still had a very strong connection.  I think having a long-distance relationship from the beginning isn't the best idea, but if you want to try to continue something that you have already begun, then it's worth trying.  As far as how to make it work, it takes creativity.  It takes learning to love the phone, starting good conversations, being good conversationalists, surprising one another, a lot of visiting, sending packages, etc.  Basically, it takes a lot of effort.  All relationships take effort and a distance relationship will take even more effort.  Good luck, give it a try.... I would never let someone that I love slip away just because of distance.  It's not a good enough reason to let go of someone.

It can work, if you have trust.  I had a long distance relationship with my husband for 4 months. it was hard no doubt but worth it in the end. 

Cindy

uhm well by seeing them every break you have or chance you have, long relationships dontwok out, and lots of the time i dont know why people would want them to, i mean ya you can like/love that person, but if they mean THAT much move next to them and if you still live with your parents break up with them till your old enuff to move with them

Well, this is quite hard. It depends a lot on how great is the love. Some people manage to make it work realy well, and some couple also manage to make it work, but after a while, they break up. Today, it is much easier to help a long distance relationship work. We have Internet, phones, and even free phone service when you use Skype. Also, even though its very expensive to travel around all the time, it is cheaper than it used to be. Not mentioning, that the invetion of planes is quite new... You should make sure you talk a lot and exchange adventrues. Also, it is a good idea to keep sending old fashioned post cards and small parcels, you can spray your perfum on it, and so the relationship can get the feeling of a less online thing. You should make sure to save enough money so you can visit each as often as possible, and maintain a good conversation at all times. Think about everything that you do, and figure out what converations you can have about those things. The most problems you can have are because of a lack of interest in the conversations, and this due to the fact that basically each one of you is living their own lives, with their own people, friends, enviornment etc. If you truly love each other- you will make it.

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I have two words for you: trust and time. You've gotta make time and you've gotta learn to trust.

constant communication + faithfulness + patience should work hand in hand....