I am inlove with a man who is currently ...

In which way is this man unavailable to you? 

If U do not know why he is unavailable to,,,Who told U he isunavailable???...How long have U been with this guy??..I think U already know the answer...If U have to ask your self  so many questiions about how honest he is and worry about him loving U  then I  would have to say lose the guy there is something not right with this affair....There should be no daubt in your mind that he loves U mind , body,& soul...U have to very careful about someone who will fill your head with soft words of love one minute and the next pushing U away...I too would daubt his words of Love!!!  To me Love is kind and gentle ...I don't think U have found the true Love of your life yet....keep looking....stay clear of this one...This is what I would do...So what ever U do good luck..Peace Out....

Corner him somewhere quiet and ask him point blank. If he does love you is it like a sister or what?  If you get a terrible answer you need to have enough strength and self respect to move on without him.  OR you can play chase. Start seeing other people and then let it slip how busy your love life is (gently of course)  Men love to play chase.

Okay i had the same problem I was in love with this one guy he keept telling me I love you Samantha I really do but we need to hang out more and what happeneds happeneds you know! So i fanilly said do you want to be with me or what? And he said yes i do but we need to hang out more and all and I said no if you want to be with me then thats fine and he said okay and now were dateing and we have been dateing for like 3 years now. All i'm trying to say is get him on the phone or meet him somewhere and tell him how you truly feel. And just be like hey i love you do you want to be with me or not and if he don't then forget him he dosen't mean what he has told you thats all i'm trying to tell you okay girly!!!

-Samantha

I think that communication is key.  I think that you two just need to sit down and figure out what both of you want for yourselves and from each other.  If he wants to be in a relationship with you, then he needs to be more open with you.  If he wants to be with other women, than you need to be willing to walk away and more on with your life.  Just because a man can say incredible things that you want to hear, does not mean that he is the person that you should be with.  The whole package has to be there.  He needs to know that you have these expectations... and either something needs to change and be clarified, or you need to move on with your life.  Holding onto things the way they are is unhealthy, and I think that you know that.

if he's not avelable you should move on. even though he siad he loves you he drop the other and come to you so don't take s