This site get people to randomly reach your blog, in exchange for you surfing other random blogs: http://www.blogexplosion.com/ It's pretty cool, I got to read a lot of interesting blogs and increase my own traffic as well as meet my husband. Also, get more active on the net - comment in other people's blogs, go on flickr\myspace\yahoo groups (if you aren't there already) and put your blog in your profile. Also - photo of naked women sometime helps...