Is my husband who i think he is

Hi Angel , I am going to be blunt here , sorry . Something is going on with your Husband .  It is time you pay him a surprise visit .  There is ABSOLUTELY no good excuse or reason that you can't get your husband to answer his phone all night long and half the next morning , ABSOLUTELY NONE ! What if there was an emergency with you or one of the children and he won't answer his phone .   He is showing classic behavior changes and signs of Adultery . Not attentive to you , he doesn't want you with him , you can't get him on the phone . You have a few options hire a PI and have him followed ( which is what I would do ).  Or make arrangements for someone to stay with your children get someone you trust to go to Ohio with you and you follow him . Or pack the 3 kids up and all of you go to Ohio for a few weeks , do some investigating while you are there .  I again personally would go with the PI , they are professionals can get you what you need including pictures . Do you have family in the area , where are your parents , go to them and tell them , I am sure they will help you .  A Man who loves his Wife doesn't find excuses not to see her , he's hiding another woman ( Mistress) or other Women from you in Ohio .  You are at home with his 3 children he thinks he's got you in a position where you can't find out .  Show him he's wrong because he is , you can find out . Get your evidence and confront him .  Your husband is lying to you .  It's Judgement Day .

Be open with him and ask for concrete answers---Like, where do you stay? show me receipts , give me the address. Ask your cell provider to send you another billing for the last few months so you have a list of numbers his phone makes. If he hedges, you know he is with someone else. Simply tell him you are wondering what is going on with the two of you, and you need to know the "REAL SITUATION". What he is doing is hiding! It only takes one call from another lady to places he calls to see if "she" is the one who is with him. Tell her that he also has other women and is juggling! See what "she " says . (do not call from your home or cell number) Play detective your self first, but the PI is a good way if you have money to spend. Who knows, maybe you can be on "Cheaters". Jer K from SA Want more ways to know. write me tomsellstu at yahoo.

I have a daughter about your age here is some Fatherly advice.  Go with the P.I. see if you can get the money from your parents. If not put it on a credit card let your husband pay for it in the divorce because sweetheart he is cheating on you and your kids.  This is what i would tell and do for my daughter.  For my soon to be ex soninlaw i would kick his ass for hurting and lying to my daughter and grandkids.

Angel, First I'll start with the bottom of your letter. You have lost your place in line with him? sweetheart, when you married him the line disappeared. Has the money he sends you or brings home become less and less, even though you know how many hours he works? It takes money for him to entertain. Sorry, but I'd say signs are he's guilty. I agree with checking the cell phone bill, you can match up a few of the numbers on there and make a few calls of your own. Speaking from experience, she will eventually get bold enough to try to call you hoping to stir up more trouble in your marriage. You do need to talk to your husband and get this out in the open. Pay him an unexpected visit. If it makes you feel any better I've been married 37 years to a man who cheated. It's a rough road to make things right again but it can be done, if that's truly what you want.

Always go with your instincts. You know something isn't right. Whenever you notice changes in your partner it can almost always be attributed to cheating. Especially when they don't answer the phone, want less sex & see you less often.. these are all signs of cheating. You don't have to catch him in the act to know what's going on. If you want solid proof, hire a pricate investigator.

I'm really sorry honey, but he is undoubtedly cheating on you.... I agree with Equus. If you can afford it, hire a PI so that he cannot argue those facts. 

My husband worked out of state for two years and yes he acted differently when he was home.  I suspected that he cheated on me.  There was a strain on our marriage.  I have written a lot of articles on the topic.  Here are two that will help you.

How to Know if your husband is cheating on you.

http://www.ehow.com/how_5156073_husband-cheating.html

How to face a cheating husband

http://www.ehow.com/how_5096716_face-cheating-husband.html