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How to get my husband to realize his bad habits are ruining our sex life.

My husband has let himself go physically, gained 40lbs, and now only 1 or 2 sexual positions are possible.Also, all the medication from high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes leaves him with e.d.He won't stay on a diet to fix these things, won't take viagra even though the doctor gave it to him, and I'm desperate for a decent sexual relationship.Any help, besides a friend with benefits, which I have tried but just left me guilty?

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4evayoung

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this same situation happened to me...and unfortunately i fell out of love with my husband and we are getting divorced...i felt he no longer valued me, and did not care about us.....now he is slimmer and in much better health...too little too late!!!!

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Ashley.Hartkin

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Love your life as you only get one.

Have you thought about marriage counseling?

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zulul

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I feel so sad for you. Maybe you should tell him that you want to enjoy it as much as he does, meaning you to want an orgasam. Do you think he is acting this way because he knows what you did? About the weight gain sometimes it is not as easy as it seems. There might be a psychological reason for this , maybe he is in some kind of stress or something . You should try to figure it out he might be undergoing something you are not even aware of.

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