After 30 years, my husband's first (remarried) wife got back in contact with him and began sending him valentines and romantic gifts-- even named a star after him-- with her husband's money (she doesn't work.) She is constantly telling him how awful her husband is and how she only stays with him for the medical insurance. She tells my husband that he is wonderful and walks on water.
My husband won't cut her off, won't buy her medical insurance, but does give her pricey gifts from the Apple store! A year ago I confronted them both about their hours-long late-night phone calls and they agreed to quit but now she emails him and You-Tubes him romantic stuff daily. She also sends him magazine subscriptions.
It is as if she is moving into my home day by day even though she is 1000 miles away. My husband is a happy client of the Emotional Lending Tree.com, and seems to have no incentive to stop her! Is my marriage toast?